Aches and Pains
Christmas comes for me as one of a hat-trick of celebrations – Christmas, New Year and birthday – which means that we all take a holiday and are in festive mode for about two weeks. My birthday is never a work day. Lucky me.
And for the first time, I actually, totally and completely enjoyed Christmas day 2018, feeling none of the usual feelings of dread, anxiety or unhappiness as used to dog my footsteps. Instead, it was simply a relaxed, enjoyable time. I even took great pleasure in cooking the Christmas lunch, and since I don’t much enjoy cooking, I count that as a spectacular achievement. Listening to one of my new CDs as I set the table, it also remember Christmas lunch as the last really handsome meal my mother ate: seconds of everything, and all with evident relish.
Only one thing I dreaded – sugar. I have a sweet tooth, as do most self-respecting citizens of Belgian extraction. But sugar makes me really ill these days. Not just a bit sore, but aching pains all night; the kind of pain that leaves me not just wondering, but knowing with a deadly certainty, that sugar simply isn’t worth the price I pay for consuming it.
So no more chocolate for me and few biscuits – in fact, none is better than one. (I’m that person who can keep a box of chocolates in the cupboard for weeks, but once I open it…!) And I’d much rather reach the stage where I lose the craving for sugar entirely. I know I can do this in about a month because, when I was young and we spent our holidays at home – where there was no sugar at all – and our terms at school – where sugary puddings were required eating – I would find myself utterly indifferent to sugar when I returned to school after the holidays. So it can be done.
My determination is, thankfully, holding. A moment’s reflection makes this a relatively easy choice. Would I exchange a moment of pleasure for three days in pain? No thanks!
Please share:
Elouise R Fraser
February 3, 2019 @ 10:07 pm
Dear Fran,
This post makes me smile! I can’t do sugar anymore, either, and find it sometimes tormenting but usually easy peasy (as we might say over here) to decline all things sugary. When I think about how the sugar industry has insinuated its way into nearly everything on the grocery shelves, it makes me furious. It also makes it easy to leave things on the shelf, no matter how tempting.
One other thing — your joy at preparing Christmas lunch, and your Mom’s delight at eating it also make me smile. What a wonderful moment!
Fran Macilvey
February 4, 2019 @ 10:11 am
Thank you, Elouise. I’m glad to know I’m not a sole crusader in the battle against sugar. I’ve won the skirmishes, a few battles, and I suspect that the war is also being won. Hurray! I’ve noticed that leaving things on the shelf makes them less and less tempting, though, I confess, I find other foods to fill the hole. The latest favourite is cashews and almonds home-roasted. Yum! 😀 😀